do you think 16 is too young to get engaged?
Yes
So im 15 and im with an 18 year old but my parents dont know yet - they think im just "talking" to him. My dads made it clear he doesnt want me with him, but thats kind of hypocritical because he was 21 when he got with my mum who was 16. I think my mums starting to understand but just dont know the right way or time to tell them im with him?:/
You can’t hide it forever! If you have strong feelings for him and you’re sure of your relationship with him and believe that it has a significant future, then tell them. They will appreciate your honesty, but don’t expect them to take it well. Also, be prepared for the consequences of them possibly preventing you from seeing him. Maybe before you tell them mention to each one individually that you like this guy, and see how they react.
The guy I like is one of my close friends but he is also one of my close friends exes so I know nothing can happen with him. what do i do
You really cant cross the exes path unless you stop being friends with your friend! You need to pick your priority and stick to it; just remember when choosing, that friends usually last longer than boyfriends. If you stay friends with both of them it’s certainly more of a winning situation.
I think I'm starting to develop an eating disorder, I just can't stop. I want to be healthy, and skinny. that's all I want.
Don’t let society consume you. Think of positive ways that you can achieve what you want. ie exercise, eating healthily. If you get an eating disorder, trust me, it’s not something that’s easy to get out of at all. Please take my advice and take other approaches to achieve what you want! Goodluck x
i think i may really like my girl bestfriend, im not sure if i like her alot as a bestfriend or i really really like her as something more. i dont know how to approach it, help please! thanks :)
you need to work out whether the friendship is too important to lose, because if she doesn’t feel the same way as you do then there’s a good chance that it may ruin your friendship. maybe send her hints and see how she reacts to them, and decide whether or not you should be honest with her. goodluck!
hey! okay so i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a bit, and he is in year 12 this year. i am in year 11. recently i have been starting to feel very distanced with him, as he is very focused on his studies. when i do talk to him over the phone, its for like 5 minutes- a quick convo, and then when i text him, he either takes forever to reply, or doesn't reply. i hardly see him, and i feel like he is forgetting about me, i am so inlove with him, and dont want to loose him, but i feel i am.
You should tell him all of this! Not in a confronting way though. Make sure he knows that you understand he’s in grade 12 and that he has alot of pressure on him and alot of work to do. But gently mention to him that you feel like you’re becoming more distant. That’s really the only thing you can do, just be honest :)
Sorry if this is awkward but I go to your school and i think im a lesbian. I don't know how to approach my friends or family to tell them. It's really hard to control my emotions at school and sometimes when I see particular girls i feel really uncomfortable. Please help me! You probably think this is a joke but i feel like your the only person i can talk to. Your really nice, caring, beautiful, friendly and i thought you would be able to help me in my decison
haha no it’s okay :)
aw thankyou :)
School’s a bitchy place where you have to fit in to be accepted. To put things in perspective for you, I see your situation as you having three options. Firstly, you could continue to suppress your emotions and feelings and wait it out until school’s over. Secondly, you could tell your closest friends, and embrace your choice of gender privately. Or thirdly, you could come out about it in a confident way, not caring what people think of you. I can’t make your decision for you sorry! But I hope these three options help. Choose what you feel most comfortable with. I’m sure the awkwardness of the situation you’re in wont last forever :) if much longer at all!
goodluck! :)
